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Sofia's avatar

There’s something about birding that fosters easy, quick connections! I find most birders are incredibly welcoming and willing to help out. But having a Bruce is something special—someone who consistently offers direct guidance and support. I have so much respect for experienced birders who offer their hard-earned knowledge purely to share the joy in it. It sounds like he was able to make a big impact on you in a short time, and I admire your efforts to pay it forward!

So cool of those dog walkers were willing show you to the Barred Owl! I love when strangers go out of their way to help you find a bird just because they see the binoculars.

Now that the bush has been sufficiently beaten around, I want to thank you. Beyond the five lifers, lol. I’ve been moved by your willingness to just pick me up and take me birding (no matter how much you downplay it, it adds time). You even took me to see your nemesis, the American Pipit—though I know the Horned Lark really pushed you over the edge on that one lol. The Cleveland trip was incredible; I didn’t even realize birding like that was possible so close, but I wouldn’t have had to chance to experience without you.

Aside from that, I’ve learned so much from you. Every time we’ve gone birding, I’ve left with a mental list of birds I need to go home and read about. I don’t just scan for Black Ducks anymore; I check the gape to catch a vagrant Mottled. You’ve helped me navigate spots that would have felt confusing and overwhelming on my own (I think I should credit you for my Goldeneyes too, indirectly lol).

But more than anything, your confidence in me has meant so much. Birding has given me the chance to reinvent myself, and your encouragement about my abilities and enthusiasm has genuinely stuck with me.

P.s. You’re going to have to help me find this Barred Owl! Hoping to try again this weekend, and I refuse to make a fool of myself this time lol.

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Kelly C. Ballantyne's avatar

Ooh, I've encountered so many generous birders that have led me to unforgettable sightings including https://substack.com/@dan566 and https://substack.com/@thebirdherder. Thank you sooooooo much for the wonderful recommendation, Nate! I am thrilled I have almost convinced you to draw birds too!

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